Key points

Love changes as we change.

Your borderline mate's love for you is likely to get stronger and more stable with psychotherapy.

Your relationship will improve as your mate starts to get better control over his or her emotions.

Relationship drama will decrease and things between you will become calmer and more stable.

If you are in a serious relationship with someone you love who has borderline personality disorder , you were probably quite happy when they agreed to go to treatment. But sometimes people become worried:

What if my partner changes with therapy and no longer loves me the way she or he did before? What if they were only with me because they needed me for security and because they were afraid to be alone?

Or, if you are the partner with a borderline adaptation

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