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Dear Care and Feeding,
My husband’s family has had a block of season tickets to our local NFL team for the past three generations. I enjoy going to the games because I like the chance for us all to be together as a family (not to mention the indulgence of stadium junk food), but I have little understanding of football.
I also know that those who play football are at risk of serious brain injuries. My husband and I have a 6-year-old son who is sometimes at these games with us. Now he is saying he wants to be just like [insert quarterback’s name here] when he grows up, and he’s expressed an interest in playing football. I am against this. My husband agrees. We are not will