Dear Anna,

I’m a 31-year-old man who’s been with my 27-year-old girlfriend for three years. We met through friends and clicked immediately — our conversations flow effortlessly and we laugh constantly together. But I’m struggling with something that’s eating me alive: I’m losing physical attraction to her. When we started dating, I knew we weren’t each other’s usual “type” physically, but our emotional connection was so strong I thought it wouldn’t matter. She’s always been curvier while I’m very into fitness, but lately I find myself looking at other women and feeling guilty about it. The worst part is she’s noticed my decreased interest and is now trying everything to change (new workouts, eating differently) but it’s not helping how I feel. I love her deeply as a person — she’s funny,

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