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Dear Prudence,

I love exercise. I run every day, regularly work out, and go to spin classes. It’s the only way I’ve found to keep my mental health in check (I’ve struggled with severe PTSD symptoms from a childhood accident), and it’s great for my physical health. I like the way I look and how strong I feel. My fiancé also likes the way I look, but he wants me to spend less time at the gym.

He says it eats into our time together, which I would understand more if he didn’t spend hours of our time together glued to his gaming console, ignoring me! He says that’s not the same since we’re physically in a room together. We have regular date nights, and most of my gym time takes place while he’s at work (he works shift

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