DEAR ERIC: The short version is I caught my ex-wife in bed with someone when I was 26 years old. At the time I had 2-, 4-, and 6-year-old children. Two boys and one girl. I remarried at 30 years old and am now 64. I just found out through DNA testing that the three kids are not my children. They all have different dads. My ex is remarried and has two children from two other dads.

My first concern is my kids, they will always be my kids to me and are incredible, but I do worry deep down that it has affected them in different ways. With that being said, they have all said I am their dad.

Deep down though, I am having a terrible time dealing with it. Not an hour goes by that I don’t think of it all and when I see any of the six grandchildren, I constantly think they are not blood

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