Dear Eric: After a lifetime of making bad choices in a husband and later boyfriends, I gladly embraced the single life and have been fully content and even joyful.

A few months ago, at age 70, I attended a dear friend’s memorial service. As I started to leave, I had a flash of connection as my eyes met those of my friend’s now-widower whom I had worked with 40 years prior.

We had a pleasant exchange; we then met for lunch a month later and then a few more times, and there is a strong connection.

This could be something really good for both of us, but he told me that during his 60-year marriage he was a serial cheater and also that this need for “forbidden” sex with people he does not care about is just who he is. He has no remorse, and it will continue to happen in the future even if w

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