Asking Eric: Here’s why you should never get a dog unless everybody is on board

Dear Eric: I wanted to respond to your advice to “ Lonely At Night ”, whose marriage was in trouble and whose husband refused to be physical. The letter writer wanted to get a dog for company, to which the husband was also opposed. You stated if the wife wants to get a dog and the husband does not, she should get a dog anyway. This is a dangerous recommendation for the dog.

I have worked in dog rescue and adopt my own rescue dogs.

I have seen way too many times that when one person wants a dog and the other does not, that poor dog suffers from neglect and quite often physical abuse from the party who never wanted the pet. Then they end up kicked out of the home, given to dangerous shelters or just suffering from the stress of moving to a new home.

This person needs to adjust or leave