Iam excited about the future we’ll have together. However, I am struggling with something in regard to my fiancée. She has noticeable facial hair. I don’t know how to talk to her about it. I know saying something would hurt her feelings, which is something I want to avoid. What’s the best way to go about saying something without sounding like a jerk?

—Treading Lightly in Florida

Dear Treading Lightly,

Many women have facial hair to some degree. By that I mean a mustache, unibrow, sideburns, and even chin hair. Many of them don’t realize that people notice because they don’t. Because you are engaged to be married, raise the subject privately and very gently. (Do not say, “Guess what else we have in common. We both have mustaches!”)

There are solutions for this. Among them are waxing and

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