Dear readers,

I am just like you – I read advice columns! Sometimes , I find one that makes me wish the question had been sent to me. Recently, Dear Abby answered a question from a person about to marry a woman with “noticeable facial hair.”

He wanted to know how to get her to do something about that hair “without sounding like a jerk.”

Abby’s advice was to “raise the subject privately and very gently,” and she offered some examples of ways women can remove their hair.

I have…a different answer, and this is directed at “Treading Lightly in Florida”: Accept this woman as she is or do her a favor and break up with her right now.

You have, I am assuming, been with this person long enough to come to see her, as you say, as “smart, beautiful and honest.” You are “excited about the futu

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