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Dear How to Do It,

I’ve noticed a trend on social media.

Basically, teens take videos of themselves with the sounds of their parents having sex in another room. They have a look of horror on their faces, with a text that says, “Please say they are clapping!!” I find this incredibly rude and just gross. My husband and I have a 14-year-old who looks at TikTok all the time. To our frustration, we have had very quiet sex for years so our kids don’t hear us. I like to think that my daughter wouldn’t take a video of the sounds of our bed squeaking (or even n

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