Carolyn Hax: She can’t unsee it now — she’s always wrong in her husband’s eyes

Adapted from an online discussion.

Hi, Carolyn: I read something online that asked men to notice how often, when talking to a woman, their default is to question, refute, play down or simply say no to what she’s saying. (Obviously not all, some of you are saints, etc.) This has haunted me since I read it, as I’ve realized my husband does this to me ALL. THE. TIME.