By Jann Blackstone, Tribune News Service

Q: My ex and I do not have a formal holiday schedule because we both followed a religion that did not celebrate holidays. Our children have been brought up that way. Over the last year, I have met and married someone who makes a huge deal out of Thanksgiving. Her family approaches it more as a family get together and it’s a very festive time. My children’s mom is adamant that we continue to approach holidays as we always did and will not allow the children to come with me to my in-law’s home, even though the parenting plan clearly designates this Wednesday through Sunday is with me. The kids are excited and really want to go. What’s good ex-etiquette?

Well, of course the kids want to go to a festive celebration. It’s something new and exciting. An

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