NEW YORK -- Weddings are meant to be celebrations of love. They also might require invited guests to make a financial commitment that brings them stress.

Whether it's paying for hotels and flights to attend a destination wedding or different outfits and gifts for multiple pre-wedding events, friends and extended family often feel pressure to spend a large amount of money before the couple gets married.

A sense of obligation and budget constraints can create resentment, hurt feelings and misunderstandings among friends and family. Future spouses who are trying to plan their dream wedding and are worried about their own expenses might want to factor in their guests' potential costs.

"Money is part of how we show up for one another," Christine Hargrove, a licensed therapist who serves as a

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