In November 2022, Beth Pinsker's 76-year-old mother began to get sick.

Ann Pinsker, an otherwise healthy woman, had elected to have a spinal surgery to preserve her ability to walk after having back issues. What Ann and Beth had thought would be a straightforward recovery process instead yielded complications and infections, landing Ann in one assisted living facility after another as her daughter navigated her care.

Eventually, by July of the following year, Ann died.

"We thought she'd be back up to speed a few weeks after hospital stay, rehab, home, but she had complications, and it was all a lot harder than she thought," Beth Pinsker, a certified financial planner and financial planning columnist at MarketWatch who has written a book on caregiving, told CNBC.

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