Marriage advice: My husband thinks his plan for my vacation days is only "fair." He's out of his mind.

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Dear Good Job,

My husband and I make the same amount of money, but in different fields. His job is 9 to 5 in an office. It has office politics, deadlines, and stressors, but no emergencies. He gets paid time off plus major federal holidays off. My job has longer hours, and it’s normal to work with distraught people daily. We offer some morning and evening times. I recently switched employers to a large religious nonprofit. Let’s say it’s Catholic, and my family isn’t. In a bid to combat burnout and honor their faith, we get their major and minor holidays fully off. I love it. But it’s sparked a weird fight with my husband.

Norm