Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. Last summer, I got a promotion and started traveling more for work. We were having less sex and after a few months, my boyfriend brought up opening up the relationship. I agreed because we both felt like it would bring us closer while allowing us other sexual opportunities, especially when we’re not in the same place. He’s always found it hot to fantasize about me with other people, and I’m bi, so I enjoy getting to sleep with people of other genders again. We talked about boundaries and I thought we were good.

Pretty much right away, I started finding partners on work trips. We’re both allowed to see people in our city — he doesn’t travel for work — but I’d rather spend time with him and my friends. At first, he wanted to hear all

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