My French-born husband taught me the real way to experience France — slow, immersive, and away from big cities

• I used to travel to France as a tourist, but now I go there because I married into a French family. • It has been rewarding to go beyond Paris and visit different regions in France in recent years. • I've discovered hidden culinary gems and authentic experiences far from the usual tourist trail.

My vacations in France were very different before I met my French-born husband.

I was a typical tourist: I stayed in the heart of Paris, ate croissants, and visited must-see attractions during the busy summer months.

I always followed a guidebook, and had a packed schedule because I thought it was the only way to ensure I wasn't missing out on anything.

But now that I'm married into a French family, my vacations in France have changed.

I've realized taking a different approach to travel,