Immaturity in dating is a major red flag for most of us, as it often indicates issues like a lack of emotional intelligence or an unreadiness for commitment. However, it can sometimes be tough to spot immaturity at first glance.

One Redditor proposed the question: “What screams ‘I’m too immature to date someone?’” Here’s what people had to say.

1. “Inability or unwillingness to look at [a] problem or issue through your partner’s perspective.” — u/AmigoDelDiabla

Someone who only focuses on their own feelings and perspectives usually has some growing to do. This selfishness is often a symptom of immaturity and a lack of consideration for others—two traits you don’t want in a partner.

2. “Deliberately trying to make the significant other jealous.” — anonymous

Unfortunately, this is a com

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