Dear Annie: Fiance’s night out with the boys throw up ‘orange’ flags that are worth looking into

She's asked if she could come by to say a quick hello or drop something off, and he always says not to -- it’s their “tradition.” bernardbodo - stock.adobe.com

Dear Annie: My fiance, “Mark,” and I have been together for four years and are set to get married next spring. We live together in a small house we bought last fall. For the most part, things are good. But lately, something’s been bothering me.

Mark has a weekly “guys’ night” every Thursday with his two best friends from college. It used to be every other week, but now it’s weekly, and sometimes even more often. I’ve asked if I could come by to say a quick hello or drop something off, and he always says not to -- it’s their “tradition.”

Last Thursday, I found a receipt in the laundry from a wine bar downtown. He told me they wer