DEAR ABBY: About eight months ago, I stumbled on my husband watching online porn. He admitted to habitual use but said it was just a stress reliever and he would stop viewing it. Meanwhile, I am plagued by feelings of not being enough for him, mainly before or during sex but also at random times of the day and night.

I am a small-breasted woman, and I can’t stop thinking that he has seen beautiful bodies that are much more of a turn-on than mine. I am ashamed of how I look and no longer want him to see me naked. This was never a problem before, but now it’s a constant feeling of inadequacy. I’m also not sure he has stopped, but I realize there’s no way for me to know that, so I’m struggling with trust.

Is there anything I can do to stop thinking about this and build back some self-confi

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