Dear Eric: My husband works for an airline and had an emotional affair with a female coworker. I only found out through less-than-honest means (I went through his phone while he was asleep).

I have started going to long-overdue therapy but am unable to get over the constant paranoia, anxiety and anguish this has caused.

I’m an extremely loyal person who has a very hard time giving up grudges and forgiving people. What can I do other than therapy to try to fix this? We had a really bad experience with a marriage counselor and it left a bad taste in my husband’s mouth. I can’t really blame him. I wonder if I will ever be able to truly forgive or trust him again.

– Broken Marriage

Dear Marriage: You wrote “what can I do” to fix things, but it sounds like you’re doing a lot of what you nee

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