When Dementia Strikes — One Family’s Crisis And The Broader Caregiving Challenge

By Aaron Allen, The Seattle Medium

Imagine watching your father—once a disciplined boxer—react violently during a medical emergency, not out of aggression, but confusion. That’s what happened when Sharon William’s father, disoriented by an episode related to dementia, punched and knocked out two medical responders who were there to assist him. The incident, driven by fear and cognitive decline, underscores just how unpredictable and emotionally complex dementia caregiving can be for families.

Such episodes are not uncommon in individuals with mid- to late-stage dementia, who can become overwhelmed by unfamiliar situations, sounds, or people. Though their actions may appear aggressive, these responses are often rooted in confusion, fear, and a loss of control.

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