MISS MANNERS by Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband and I regularly host events at our home for groups from five to 20 people. We all have a wonderful time and enjoy one another’s company.

However, there is one guest who always makes an offhand “joke” about something in our home or the way I run my kitchen. Things like, “This is the dumbest dish I’ve ever seen,” or “Why do you always do things this way?” She thinks she’s being cute and funny, but I find it hurtful.

I pride myself on being a good hostess and providing a comfortable place to let people unwind. I work very hard to make my home inviting.

How can I approach this person without seeming rude or insulting? I never want anyone to feel uncomfortable in my home.

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