Key points
Boundaries fail when they're vague. This week, practice clear boundary phrases you can repeat when tested.
Say, "I care about you and I can listen, but it is best for both of us if I do not try to solve this for you."
Realize that consistency leads to healthier expectations and increased respect.
If your love and caring have morphed into rescuing, loaning, and fixing for your adult child, you are far from alone. What starts out as helping turns into enabling. This perpetuates a cycle of dependency, strain/conflict, and resentment.
Each week, through my coaching practice, I help many parents navigate the chaos of being in these stressful situations. When these parents reach out to me, they are feeling drained by endless demands and blurred boundaries .
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