Dear Eric: I’m 81 years old and my husband is 84. We were comfortably retired until our 44-year-old daughter and 9-year-old granddaughter moved in with us a few weeks ago.

Our daughter was evicted from her condo because her ex-husband stopped paying. (I don’t blame him.)

She’s a college graduate and hasn’t worked at a job in her field for 10 years, because her ex helped her start her own business, which has never provided a living wage. The business has now failed.

She says she’s looking for a job but hasn’t found anything.

My problem is that I’m neat and she’s messy. If my daughter or granddaughter drop something on the floor, they don’t pick it up. If they cook, they leave food on the stove and counter. The two rooms that they’re using have clothes and “mess” everywhere. When I ask

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