Key points

Partner blaming blemishes the complexion of couple communications.

Intimate partners are uniquely positioned to know each other's weaknesses, which then become targets of blame.

Partner blaming can come more easily than effectively managing our individual needs.

Sound personal need management grows mutual respect and preempts blaming.

From Blame to Respect Source: Viktoria Slowikowska/Pexels

Do you "play the blame game?" If so, how often do you point your finger at your partner and for what reasons? What is the usual outcome?

Caution : Unabated criticism can lock partners in a disquieting fallout of lingering, costly couple discord.

On the Couch

Partner blaming poses one of the more formidable hurdles I face as a psychologist specializing in couples therapy . Even

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