DEAR ABBY:

I do everything for my family. I take care of everyone. I also work and earn a good living. Now that I’m older and my kids are grown, I like to go on vacation. The problem is, my husband doesn’t want to do anything.

My best friend booked a trip for the two of us, and I’m excited to go and enjoy a few days off from “my life,” so to speak, but my husband is mad because he isn’t invited. I have taken a vacation without him to see our grandson across the country, and it has never been an issue. We have been together 38 years.

For the last two years, my husband has been sick, but he’s doing much better now. I feel like I deserve a break and a mental reset. He says he is “hurt.” He is trying to guilt me into not going, but I told him I need this for my own sanity. Am I wrong for wa

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