As a young Mennonite man I always had trouble figuring out whether Annie or Martha or Bertha was actually interested in me. Just ask my friend Johan. I used to spend hours pestering him with questions. “Hey, do you think Martha likes me?” And, every time, he would just say, “Oba, Andreas, I have no idea. Why don’t you ask her?” Of course, I couldn’t just ask her. “There must be some clues,” I said.

And so, over the years, I’ve discovered a few tips that will help young Mennonite men discover whether their affection is shared by their Mennonite damsel. I hope you’ll find these tips helpful.

She lets you beat her in a game of horseshoes. Let’s face it, the ladies have got the men beat when it comes to playing horseshoes. So, if she mysteriously misses that ringer in the last round of play

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