Key points

Infertility magnifies stress, twisting thought patterns and straining our connections.

Partners often react in opposite ways — as one amplifies, the other withdraws.

Beneath these surface distortions lies grief, the heart of infertility’s pain.

Learn to recognize your patterns.

Infertility magnifies every communication challenge a couple already carries, as stress can distort our perception. Even simple differences of opinion can suddenly feel like rejection or blame.

Spare me the Pain

Our minds are wired to spare us from pain and uncertainty. Thought fallacies are the brain’s way of managing that fear . When we face something unpredictable or beyond our control, the mind scrambles to restore order where none exists.

When so much of the future lies in the grey zone

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