When you date, one of two things will happen. Either you get married and live together or you break up, which, at best, is never easy and sometimes feels like an outright terrorist attack. Many people do not react well to rejection, and some just go off completely.
Yes, there is the possibility that the person you are dating is insane or an addict, and that can be hidden for a long time. Remember the movie "Fatal Attraction?"

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