When we speak of forgiveness, we often end up seeing others or ourselves as either victims or culprits. The moment you decide to forgive, there is already a judgement in the mind. You believe the other has wronged you intentionally. But when you look a little deeper, you see it was simply born out of ignorance. Most mistakes are not born out of malice. They happen because of a lack of awareness, a lack of understanding, and a lack of peace within a person.

Very often, we assume, “They did this purposely to hurt me.” But that’s rarely the whole truth. Every so-called culprit is a victim crying for help. They may be victims of poor education, stress, emotional instability, and narrow thinking. But we fail to see that. When you begin to see the victim inside the culprit, something softens in

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