Q: How do I know if my children are truly safe when they move between two homes -- and I rarely talk to their mom? What should I do if something feels “off”? What’s good ex-etiquette?

A: This is one of the most common questions I hear from newly separated parents, and it makes perfect sense. When families reorganize, children begin living in two different environments, and parents naturally worry.

But, before I answer the question, let me point out the biggest problem — “and I rarely talk to their mom.” That needs to change right away. How will you ever be able to coordinate efforts if you rarely talk to your co-parent? If it’s truly a challenge, get some help. Co-parenting counseling is an excellent place to start.

To continue, both homes do not need to look the same, feel the same or

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