• Michelle Obama says it's time to stop treating 35 as the age when everything should be figured out. • "I would just say there are no 'shoulds'. There are so many ways to live a happy, fulfilling life," she said. • Moreover, much of what shapes the future comes down to circumstances beyond one's control, she added.

Michelle Obama wants people to stop stressing about turning 35.

In a clip released on Tuesday from her podcast "The Look," Obama sat down with guests Jane Fonda and Bethann Hardison to reflect on the advice she'd give her 35-year-old self.

"I would tell myself to enjoy this age, the struggles that you feel like you have at this age," Obama said. "Because mid-30s are when you may think that your career should be further along than it should be, because now you think you a

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