NEED TO KNOW

A wedding guest wrote to the "Dear Abby" advice column, questioning her decision to tell the bride's mother that she suspected the bartender might have taken her cash gift for the newlyweds

She said she became concerned when she hadn't received a thank-you note from the couple six months after the wedding

The bride's mother has "become very distant" since the guest brought up the gift

A wedding guest is questioning her decision to tell the bride's mother that she suspected the bartender might have taken the cash gift she brought for the newlyweds.

She detailed her dilemma in a letter to the "Dear Abby" advice column, published by The Mercury News on Tuesday, Dec. 2. She began by explaining that she and her husband attended the destination wedding of the daughter of a

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