DEAR ABBY: I am one of three adult siblings. My brother and sister both have children; I do not. I love my nieces and nephews and have always provided birthday and Christmas gifts, as well as sent them money for graduations or other special events.
My siblings say they no longer want to exchange gifts between the three of us, and just to focus on the kids. I spend several hundred dollars a year on gifts for them and receive no gifts in return. I know that when a gift is given, there should be no expectation of getting one in return, but I think a token gift for my birthday and Christmas wouldn’t be unreasonable. I would be thrilled to receive a $20 gift card to a restaurant. Am I being unreasonable? -- LOVING UNCLE IN THE MIDWEST
DEAR UNCLE: Perhaps. From what you have written, I don’t t