DEAR HARRIETTE: A close friend of mine borrowed one of my favorite dresses to wear to a wedding a few weeks ago.

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It wasn’t just any dress: It was expensive, it fits me perfectly and I’ve worn it only a handful of times. When she returned it, I noticed there were several stains on the fabric.

She didn’t mention them, apologize or offer to pay for cleaning. She just handed it back as if nothing was wrong.

At first, I thought maybe she didn’t notice the stains, but they’re impossible to miss.

Now I’m feeling hurt, not just about the dress, but about the lack of respect and acknowledgment. I’m debating whether I should bring it up and risk creating tension, or just let it go to avoid conflict.

Part of me thinks it’s about the principle, not the money, but another part wo

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