Dear Coleen
I’m a woman aged 39 and I’ve been separated from my ex for a few months, but we’re still in the early stages of divorce .
I’ve started dating again because I don’t want to waste time, being nearly 40, plus my ex was having an affair , which is the reason we split.
I’m kind of being motivated by rage and revenge! I’ve had a few dates since the marriage ended , but nothing felt right until a few weeks ago, when I met a really great man who seems perfect for me.
He’s a couple of years younger and has never been married, so isn’t carrying any baggage. My problem is, I haven’t told him I’ve been married and that I’m currently getting divorced.
Initially, it was because I wanted to see if we were a good match , but I’m worried about telling him in case he r