Before I had children, I had so many ideas of what being a good parent would look like. I knew it would be challenging, especially in the early years before they started school. But I was still imagining a perfectly decorated nursery (with a crib my baby would actually want to sleep in), all the newest gear from my registry, and sweet, snuggly moments that would make motherhood look like a Pinterest dream.

Now, several years and many humbling experiences later, my definition has changed — somewhat radically. I’ve realized being a good parent is simpler than I ever imagined.

My new definition of good parenting centers on emotional maturity . Let’s face it — children will challenge your patience in ways you’d never expect. They don’t follow the plan; they live fully in the present. I

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