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Dear Prudence,
I’m a 28-year-old woman, and my dad and I have worked really hard to repair our relationship since he and my mom divorced about 14 years ago, and he began a new relationship (that overlapped with his marriage) and decided he had little interest in being a dad anymore. I have two little siblings, and he has truly bettered himself and been there for us as adults in a way he wasn’t when we were still kids.
I’m writing because he recently created a photo server account for us to share, where he uploaded a bunch of photos from my childhood that I previously hadn’t seen.
Some photos concern me. For example, pictures of random women in bikinis at the pool on family beach vacations, pictures of my dad and m