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Dear How to Do It,

Four months ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. It’s been a long road back, but thanks to extensive rehab, I should make a full recovery. Obviously, I had to put my sex life with my husband on hold while I healed.

But between then and now, he has become obsessed with pornography. When I checked his browser history, it was literally nothing but adult websites for the entire week. My hints at getting back to sex (oral and hand stuff for now, until I’m a little better) have been rebuffed, with him citing that he doesn’t want to put too much of a strain on my body. When I confronted him with what I’d learned, he accused me of “spying

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