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Dear Good Job,

I’m a retail pharmacy technician, and I have a HUGE crush on my pharmacy manager! I’ll call him “Mark.” I work for a big chain with a lot of locations. I transferred to this store after having conflicts with a toxic new manager at the first store I worked at. I was nervous joining a new team with all new people, but Mark changed everything.

When I first came here, he welcomed me and helped me get to know the others there. Mark is a really smart pharmacist, a great manager, and his work environment is amazing because he keeps things both positive and efficient. On top of that, he’s charismatic, and he’s HOT. The team

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