A new survey of 2,000 adults aged 21 and older reveals that half of Americans have already mapped out a “game plan” to survive tricky conversations this season. 

By Joe Lombardi From Daily Voice

For many, the holidays mean more than just turkey and tinsel. They also bring a side of awkward questions that can make even the most festive gatherings feel like a minefield.

A new survey of 2,000 adults aged 21 and older reveals that half of Americans have already mapped out a “game plan” to survive tricky conversations this season. 

Nearly half say they would rather sit at the kids’ table than face the barrage of uncomfortable questions, with millennials especially eager to make the switch.

So, what are the questions people most hope to avoid? Here’s a list of the top conversation culprits that Americans dread hearing at holiday gatherings:

  • “Do you have a girlfriend?”
  • “So, when are you going to lose those holiday pounds?”
  • “Who did you vote for?”
  • “What did you do to your hair?”
  • “When do you think you will go back to work?”
  • “Why won’t you go to church with us?”
  • “When are you getting your life together?”
  • “How’s your diet going?”
  • “When are you getting married or having kids?”
  • “Are you OK since your husband died?”
  • “How much are you making now?”
  • “Are you really happy?”
  • “Why don’t you join an online dating site?”
  • “How come you haven’t come to visit?”
  • “How are you doing financially?”
  • “What do you do every day now that you’re retired?”
  • “What is your job now?”
  • “So, what are your plans for the future?”
  • “Can I borrow money?”

The survey, commissioned by St. Francis Winery & Vineyards and conducted by Talker Research, found that politics, finances, and comments on appearance or weight top the list of topics people want to avoid. 

Forty-two percent said politics is off-limits, followed by finances at 28 percent and appearance or weight at 26 percent.

To steer clear of these landmines, many respondents say they fake a phone call or make a quick dash to the restroom. 

Others keep things light by talking about food and wine — always a safe bet, with 48 percent saying it is their favorite topic at the table. Social lives, travel plans, hobbies, and health are also popular conversation starters.

Despite the discomfort, most agree that these moments can lead to deeper connections. Nearly two-thirds say they learn more about loved ones during the holidays than at any other time of year, especially over a shared meal.