Ileft my ex-husband two-and-a-half years ago. He told me the day we broke up that he had feelings for a married woman and she for him. I knew. It was part of the reason I wanted to leave him, along with a very long list of ways in which our marriage was no longer serving either of us.

A few months later he started actively (but covertly) pursuing this woman, who is a mum in my son’s sports team. Apart from my ex and this woman, I am pretty sure I am the only person who knows.

I feel complicit in their awful lie and I feel sick knowing that it will hurt a lot of people. My son is 17 and his soccer team is like an extended family. I am concerned that this relationship has the capacity to destroy not only their family but my son’s relationship with his dad. Do I tell the husband, or d

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