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Dear Annie: At the beginning of the year, I met a guy we’ll call “Gus.” In the first couple of months, I felt like things would progress into a relationship. We went to dinner, watched movies and spent the night together multiple times. But once I started a second job, it got harder to see him -- or so I told myself.

Since March, Gus hasn’t initiated a single hangout. I’ve asked him to, but he always says he’s busy with family. After ghosting me for almost two months, he showed up at my apartment at 1 a.m. to explain himself. I thought he was drunk, and I regretfully let him stay the night.

A few days later, my grandfather passed away. On the night of the funeral, Gus showed up, this time at 2 a.m., and stay

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