Dear Annie: About seven years ago, my husband -- now 45 -- woke up from an almost two-day nap, and it was as if he had become a different person overnight.

He’s mean and suddenly blames me for everything. He lies to me and everyone constantly about the smallest things. He talks to other women online like he’s single and claims he is. He won’t take accountability for anything. When I confront him, he says he’s not doing anything wrong and tries to make me take the blame or says that I’m crazy, lying or making things up. Even if I have proof of something, he’ll deny it.

He’s become secretive, selfish and sneaky. Calling him controlling is an understatement, and that’s just the beginning. He refuses to see a doctor and won’t even consider that something might be wrong. It’s been years, and

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