Dear Annie: I’m a 36-year-old woman who’s always been the “go-to” friend for emotional support. I don’t mind being there for people -- I genuinely care -- but lately it’s starting to wear me down.

My closest friend, “Julia,” has been going through a tough time with her marriage for the past year. I’ve spent countless hours on the phone with her, listening, offering advice and even rearranging my schedule when she’s had a breakdown. At first, I felt honored she trusted me so much. But she never even takes my advice! What is she going to me for guidance for if she’s not even going to listen?!

Plus, if I ever try to share something I’m struggling with, the conversation somehow circles back to her.

If I don’t respond right away to a message, she sends follow-ups. I’ve started to feel anxio

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