Dear Lizzy,

I have been in a relationship for over six years with this guy. When we met, he had other people he was involved with and I found out in the second year of the relationship. I stayed despite the infidelity and the fact that he had a second child with his baby mama while I was still with him. Things have changed from my side, I now hate him, everything that I went through with him is now a trigger and I’m constantly in fight mode. Leaving him will be difficult, but so is staying.

Was I wrong for staying after finding out that he was involved with other people?

Regrets

Dear Regrets,

Sorry to be blunt, but you are asking the wrong question.

The right question is: Do you want to stay with him now?

It truly doesn’t matter what choice you made six years ago, or two years ago o

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