Asking Eric: It was a compliment! Why should my friend resent being compared to a celebrity?

Dear Eric: I have known my friend Steve for more than 10 years. He is a different race than me, but race has never been an issue until recently.

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I texted him to compliment him on how his looks, personality and family life remind me of a well-known actor who is a well-respected family man and good-looking. It was a compliment.

He responded by telling me that he was offended by the racist comment and to retract the comment.

I refuse because the actor has done nothing illegal, has a good character, is a positive family man, is a good actor and is nice-looking — all characteristics Steve has.

I’m at a loss. How do I respond?

– Compliment

Dear Compliment: It seems easiest to tell Steve, “I meant no harm by what I said and I’m sorry that it offended you.” Not only is this