Key points

Strategic empathy helps you understand motives so you can influence dynamics without escalating.

Reframing emotion gives you options to redirect conflict, reduce tension, and keep conversations steady.

Your calm sets the tone; emotional steadiness shapes the whole table more than any single comment.

Stoic negotiation starts with a pause that shifts you from reacting to choosing your next move.

The holidays bring warmth, nostalgia , and… emotionally booby-trapped conversations.

Who hosts?

Who cooks?

Who sits next to whom?

How long will you stay?

Does someone’s comment deserve a response—or restraint?

And then there are the harder landmines: the offhand political remark, the joke only a third of the table finds funny, or the question that hits a little too close to ho

See Full Page