Dear Eric: We have a condo at the beach that has a pool. There is a couple that we know through other people that we are not friendly with, and they have a condo in another building without a pool.

Every summer, the wife texts me for the code to my pool. She uses the pool all summer long.

I’ve been kind in sharing our code with her for several years now. She always presents me with a $50 gift card for the whole summer. You can barely get two drinks for that these days.

They could very well afford to buy a condo with a pool, but they chose not to.

Should I continue to give her the code to our pool? I just feel if she knew that she exercised in a pool every day and didn’t buy a condo with a pool that’s on her.

Of course, our condo fees are higher as we have pool expenses. What do you th

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